The purpose of the Sensual Direct Sex Toy Manual is a learning tool for those who want to be informed and educated on this subject. This manual will help people learn how to use their various sex toys and associated products.
ANAL TOYS
For many people anal sex and the toys associated with it is abnormal. A great number of people believe that the sensations and the orgasms are the best and not dirty and obscene. Many physical sexual problems relating to size and muscle control can be deal with when using the proper anal toy. Some women after giving birth are left with flabby vaginal muscles. By inserting a butt plug they will tighten the vaginal passage and regain the tight feeling in the vagina. Prostate Stimulation for all men no matter what their sexual orientation find is healthy and extremely satisfying. This can be accomplished by inserting a number of anal sex toys including, butt plugs, vibrators, balls & beads, and dildos. Any of these toys should start of with a small diameter and increase size in a progressive manner. This is a matter of safety rather than inserting a whole penis in the anus. This is especially true with a first time experience. Most important, a person can fantasize alone or with a partner using anal sex toys for muscle training and sexual excitement.
How to choose your anal toy:
If you are going to have anal sex with a partner you should a dildo with a harness so your partners hands will be free for other sexual stimulation If you are a beginner, start small and work up. Soft and flexible toys work well for beginners. You might want to experiment with butt plugs and then try beads and balls.
The best anal sex begins with relaxation:
Some people start with a hot bath to make the anus more elastic. A gentle massage with the finger helps get things ready. Physical exercise can also help relax the anus muscles which helps get ready for anal penetration.
Lubrication
Because the anal area does not secrete it own lubrication it is very important to purchase a good lubrication for your sex play.
BONDAGE & DISIPLINE (B&D)
If you are serious about bondage, make sure your partner desires to play and experiment in the same way. It is very important that both partners agree on everything before beginning. Bondage (B&D) which means Dominance and Submission includes role-playing, restraining, spanking, and various sensual sensations using various adult toys and equipment. The following are some of the items used for bondage. Handcuffs, Blindfolds, Paddles, Whips, Ball Gags, Thigh Cuffs, Finger Cuffs, Leather Masks, Bondage Collar, Nipple Clamps, and Feathers. To learn more, you may want to watch Bondage Movies or Read some Bondage Books. This can help with any misunderstandings your partner may have by sharing the education process together.
Be Safe
When restraining your submissive partner, be sure that the restraints are comfortable so your partner will feel the high of being tied up. You may use ropes, leather straps, various cuffs, , scarves, but never so tight that you can't put one finger between the restraint and the skin. Safety is also important when implementing any type of flagellation. Flogging or spanking is very common in bondage activities and is usually done with whips, paddles, crops and other devices and really does not need to be painful. It is up to the individuals how painful the sensation needs to be. It should always be mutual. If any type of blistering or cuts appear, you should stop that activity.
DILDOS
Strap on Dildos are used among heterosexual couples along with homosexual people. If a woman decides to put on a strap-on, it is usually for anus penetration with the male. All strap on dildos are flared at the base so it will stay secure in the harness. A Strap on Dildo can be used by both male and female for either oral, anal, or vaginal sex. Men and women can switch roles which many couples like to do. Dildos are available in all shapes and sizes and come with and without testicles. Some of these dildos are hollow so a male may insert his penis inside to increase size for his mate. Other dildos are designed to stimulate the g-spot and are curved for this purpose. Some strap-ons have two shafts for both anal and vaginal penetration at the same time. Most dildos are manufactured from rubber, pvc, or latex.
Glass Dildos
Glass Dildos are available in all shapes and sizes. Some of the various shapes are extremely beautiful.For those who like it very stiff and smooth, glass is the way to go. Because they are so beautiful, many folks display them as a work of art. Glass last forever if it is properly taken care of. If you don't allow it to chip or crack it will never deteriorate. If it is not on display, it should be wrapped up for protection. There is virtually no friction with glass products especially when the proper lubrication is used. Glass Dildos are very hygienic because they have no pores which allows for bacteria to cling to the unit. Because glass retains hot or cold, you may warm or cool it as much as you desire.
Double Sided Dildos
This is a unique toy because it can be used by either homosexuals or heterosexual couples. If it is flexible and double sided, a woman can use it for both anal and vaginal penetration. It is also used by two women for love making or a woman can penetrate a man anally which is called pegging. Double Sided Dildos are very popular because they can do so much and so many different positions are possible. When done using your Double Sided Dildo, be sure to use a good toy cleaner and store your sex toys away properly.
Realistic Dildos
Many dildos are considered Realistic Dildos because they are either molded form an actual penis such as a particular porn star or are made to look a real penis. Some come with veins and testicles and are available in all shapes, sizes and colors. There is a product called Clone-A-Willy that allows one to mold his own penis from a kit.
Some of these Realistic Dildos are hollow inside so a man can insert his penis in it for greater size. Realistic Dildos are manufactured from many different materials including rubber, latex, jelly, plastic, and silicone.
VIBRATORS
Clitoral Vibrators
There are many different types of Clitoral Vibrators which include hands free strap-ons. A Butterfly Vibrator is a good example of this. You have hands free clitoral stimulation because this Clitoral Vibrator is attached to your body. A clit orgasm is the ultimate orgasm for most women. There are many other Clitoral Vibrators that are a multitude of various speeds, shapes, sizes and colors. Most of the vibrators today are waterproof. If you plan on water play you must use waterproof products. Many Clitoral Vibrators come in the form of dolphins, beavers, and other creatures. Pick what is right for you.
Egg and Bullet Vibrators
These are small vibrating devices shaped like small bullets or eggs. They vibrate at various speeds and work the best when inserted into the anus or vagina. It can also be used to stimulate any erogenous zone outside the body.
G Spot Vibrators
These G Spot Vibrators are specifically designed to find and stimulate the G Spot. They have a special curve at the end of the vibrator that vibrates. It doesn't work well with a full bladder. Some women prefer to lay on their back and put their finger in their vagina to explore exactly where to place the G Spot Vibrator because it is so sensitive.
Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit Vibrators are extremely popular because they are designed to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. Some come with rotating beads and are manufactured mostly in silicone or plastic. They can vibrate, rotate and swirl all at the same time. They are called Rabbit Vibrators because of the double prongs that look like rabbit ears. They have also been featured in several national TV show.
Traditional Vibrators
The Traditional Vibrator is where it all started. This is your basic vibrator that fits well in the vagina and vibrates. They come in all sizes, colors and various speeds. It is recommended for a woman to use two vibrators when seeking a simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasm; one on the clit and the other inserted inside the vagina.
Vibrating Nipple Clamps
Vibrating Nipple Clamps can either be plugged into a wall plug or some have their own battery packs. They are designed for nipple stimulation and with most clamps, the speed can be regulated.
