The Best Way to Introduce “HIM” to Fun Sex Toy Play!
Talking about and playing with sex toys comes naturally to some, but to others it’s more of an awkward, uncomfortable subject to bring up. Lots of men and women feel kind of weird about bringing a sex toy to bed, even though they might have fantasized about it off and on. Maybe you’re a woman who has indulged in sex toys already and enjoy them a lot! And now you would like to share them with your lover… but doesn’t quite know, how he would feel about it! Here are some great helpful hints and tips that might make it a bit easier for you!
Spring a sex toy on him when he’s turned on!
The best time to introduce your guy to a sex toy, is probably when he’s really turned on! Usually most men will be interested in something new, if it’s presented to them in the right way. For example, tell him in a flirty and teasing way, about this new little vibrator you really like! Make sure though that it’s a small vibrator and not a huge dildo! Some men can feel intimidated by a dildo that’s bigger than his own penis and might think that his penis is to small or something! Guys can be really sensitive sometimes!
Start by asking if he wants to see you play with it! And after a while of watching you, most men will really enjoy their woman indulge in a vibrator! When you feel you have his full attention, you can carefully try it out on him. First you can give him the feel of the vibrator on his nipples, than slowly move it over his chest and stomach! Lastly, move the vibrator up and down his penis and all around his scrotum too! I can almost guarantee you, you won’t have any major complaints from him! Actually, he’s probably going to tell you to keep on doing it!
Now he might be ready for even more sex toys!
Once you feel confident that you’ve broken the ice a bit, he might be interested in looking at other sex toys you really enjoy too! Maybe you like a little butt action and have one of those anal toys like the vibrating egg or bullet! Or if you have one of those cock rings, he might now be interested in trying one of those out as well! It’s always a great idea to give him the feel of being a bit in charge too! You can do that by introducing a remote control sex toy like, “the remote control vibrating panties” where he can be in charge of the height of stimulation you receive! These come in vibrating thongs for men too! Believe me, soon he’ll be acting like a kid in a candy store!
