How to Introduce “HER” to the Exciting World of Sex Toys!
Everyone that’s old enough to engage in sexual encounters, have probably heard about sex toys, actually kids that aren’t even sexually active, probably has too! It’s almost impossible to not have seen or heard a TV and/or radio commercial about the subject. This of course bring on some natural curiosity, if and how they can fit into your sex life. But if you are that guy, who’s already engaged in male sex toys and/or female sex toys activities by yourself and now, would like to introduce one or more of them to your lover… but doesn’t quite know how to go about it. Here’s some great tips you might find helpful!
Start with open communication about the subject!
It’s always a much smarter idea to start a small conversation about the subject of sex toys and then try to find out how your lover feels about them. This is obviously a matter you want to end up in a successful manner! So it’s of the utmost importance you don’t scare or shock you’re lover in anyway. Pulling out a huge, vibrating dildo from your night stand, could be quite intimidating as well as scary, to someone who hasn’t shared sex toys with you before!
If you find out that your lover seems really into the experience of sharing sex toys with you… makes of course everything a bit easier! But if your lover seem a bit timid and shy, it’s best to be very considerate of her feelings and not to apply any kind of pressure. In fact, sharing in the anxieties with your lover, can actually bring on a very relaxed and soothing atmosphere!
Why some people are more hesitant than others!
To you, sex toys might sound really fun and exciting and “why” wouldn’t everyone love them, just as much as you do. Probably because you came from a very open and sexually orientated family! But to some there are several reason “why”. For example… fear plus lack of knowledge and education might be one! And even if the person is a little curious and has done some fantasizing about sex toys… it could still be totally overwhelming, to actually go through with it!
Be supportive and patient!
Another more serious part of their fear, guilt or shame might be in rooted by family, religion or even social pressures! The best key to successfully introduce one or more sex toys into your reputoire in being a great lover is…. “Be SUPPORTIVE and PATIENT”! Soon your partner will through you and more knowledge about sex toys, have all her fears subside and disappear! And when they finally do, all kinds of doors will suddenly open to lots of future fun and exciting explorations… of the wonderfully thrilling and satisfying world of sex toy play!
