Help your Girlfriend Enter the Very Satisfying World of Sex Gadgets!!
If you touched upon the subject of sex toy play and your girlfriend has shown some interest, but still feels strange about bringing sex toys into the bedroom… here are some great tips that might help you along! If you can find a great adult book or magazine that specializes in this matter… and you can read together, might spare you the trouble of finding the right words to say. But if you feel confident enough, start by talking sexy to her, then start exploring her body and touch her in new and exciting places… without any sex toys around.
Be extra sensual and erotic!
Use your hands, fingers and/or tongue to make her feel special by touching her in all her favorite places and even some new, highly erogenous zones too! If she likes massages with her favorite scented oils and you know that’s a big turn-on to her, engage in that as well. Now, it’s time to move away from the sensual part of your relationship and go online to find a sex toy site, you can browse through together!
Using some humor while checking out sex toys, can be a great ice breaker and might start some mutual sex toy discussions. You’ll be amazed how many unique and funny looking sex toys there are, to laugh and joke around with! Carefully watch her when her interest peeks over one special sex toy… and then ask if she’d like to explore a little with that special one. And if she says “yes”… bingo, here’s your chance to be a gentleman and offer to buy it for her! Now, this is one way, to get your girlfriend to indulge in sex toy play. But if you already decided to spring one on her… here’s a great way, how to go about it too.
Whatever you do…don’t push it!
If you already decided to spring one on her, choose a sex toy that doesn’t look like a huge penis! And certainly don’ start out with a great, big butt plug either! Get a female sex toy, like a butterfly vibrator or small, cute looking vibrating egg. These sex toys aren’t intimidating or scary looking at all. Instead they bring out curiosity and interest! If she still feels a bit intimidated, leave the vibrating egg and/or butterfly vibrator, for her to explore on her own. Then reenter the room, when she calls for you!
Let all the sex toy fun start!
Hopefully by now, she’s ready to have some sex toy play together with you! And if you’re already familiar with these particular sex toys, you know the two of you can have lots of sex gadget fun! First you can entice her by gently strap on the butterfly vibrator and maybe penetrate her, while she’s receiving pleasurable pulsating, fluttering vibes!
And while you’re engaging in intercourse, you can have her stroke your balls and around the anus area, with the vibrating egg! Well, all the different sexual possibilities are endless, when adding sex gadgets into your sex life! By opening the doors and letting your girlfriend enter the very exciting, very satisfying world of sex toy play… will usually end up with a big hug and lots of kisses, for her very thoughtful boyfriend!
