Archive for August, 2010

I swear, you learn something new everyday! One day I was looking to buy more candles, just regular ones I have around the house… you know like pillars, tea lights, votive and regulars! I usually by a bunch of them at the same time, to make sure I never run out, since I’m a huge candle lover! It’s nothing like coming home after a long days work, sit back and relax with a glass of chilled white vine and some lit candles surrounding you!

I’m totally into all kinds of aromatic candles too… but I especially like the therapeutic ones, made from all natural herbs and spices! And if you’re into those candles, you know they have that very special way of calming and relaxing you! I have a tendency to get very set in my ways and always order the same old ones… but this time I saw something, I hadn’t seen before!

It’s sex candles with something called “pheromones” inside!

When I first saw the words sex candles with pheromones, I had no idea what it meant! Well, I knew what the word sex meant ofcourse, but not together with pheromones! It immediately got me really curious, so I went on Goggle to do a bit of research… and this is what I found out! The word is Greek and in plain English it means “to bear” and “hormone”! Now, once I read that, I realized what it was right away! It’s that stuff that male animals secret, to attract the females when it’s mating seasons!

So I quickly scrolled down to see what they had to say about humans and the effect these pheromones could potentially have on us! Well, I can’t say I was totally turned-on reading about the studies they’ve done regarding this! One they talked about was about women smelling each others perspiration which apparently could control the menstrual cycle! The other one was about women smelling mens armpit perspiration (men have higher levels of pheromones by the way)… which I could see, might be somewhat erotically stimulating… but still not something I really like to do, to get horny… if you get my drift!

I like the synthetic component much better!

So when I got to the part about studies made on putting synthetic component of pheromones into perfumes, to increase intimate contact between humans… it all made perfect sense, they would put that stuff into candles too! Even though they ended the article by saying, these studies have been heavily criticized for having all kinds of flaws… it still had caught my attention in the biggest way, and I couldn’t wait to check out these pheromones sex candles!

And these candles literally has to be “on fire”… HA, ha… cause they offer tons of them which means that people are into buying them… right!!! They come in lots of scents inside a very eye pleasing “Sex Candle in Tin” container, plus a short inspirational poem which I found to be very cute! Anyway, after doing all this exciting research and have my intellect filled… I was very curious to see, if these pheromones could get my private parts just as fulfilled as well!

A sense of complete euphoric well-being came over me!

After lighting four of them, I figured if this really works, why not make sure to get a complete rush of erotic sensation! I’m not sure if my brain was playing a very sensuous game with my body, but I actually felt really relaxed and than a sense of calmness, almost like euphoria came over me… which suddenly became overwhelmingly erotic! My God, I felt like I was in seventh heaven and not to be bragging… when I indulged in some solo play, I had a whopping three orgasms in a row and that’s a record for me!

We have the same old friends, we’ve had since the dawning of time it seems and getting together now a days, I’m sorry to say, feels more or less like going to a funeral! But I can’t totally blame my friends though… the gloomy economy, has been a large contributor to our boring get togethers lately! Several of our old friends have lost their jobs or have endured cuts in their pay checks, which ofcourse can be a total downer… not to mention all the worrying about mortgage payments, collage tuition and so on!!! See… when times where great, we would plan different trips all the time, which within itself is so much fun to do! We went on vine tasting trips in Napa Valley, cruises down to Mexico and to Alaska… winter vacations in Aspen, summer vacations in Europe… you name it, we did it! But like I said, those days are long gone and all we are left with, is the memories and picture slide shows!

It’s time to push dome and gloom to the side!

Actually, it’s gotten so bad where some of us don’t even wanna spend time together anymore! But hey, I’m not ready to give up my sad excuse for friends just yet… cause I know they still have that “fun and games” spirit inside of them! I just have to find a way to bring it out again… without anyone having to spend to much money that is! One thing we still enjoy doing, is sharing a drink or two together. So based on that I figured… if I could spice that event up a bit, things might lighten up for all of us!

Fun drinking games was the simple solution!

I’ve heard about all kinds of drinking games, especially a game called “Beer Pong”! Sometimes when I’ve been over at our, now grown up kids parties, they play that game! And it always seems to liven up the party right away… so why couldn’t it do the same for us and our friends! None of my friends are really into drinking beer all night long though… so if I could fine a drinking game that fits a group older folks, now that would be perfect!

Off to the internet I went!

So off I went on the internet to start my search! But it didn’t take me long at all, cause right away I found a whole bunch of them… and best of all, they where all really cheap! There where all kinds of adult drinking games involving beer ofcourse… but many others which you can play with your favorite alcoholic beverages too! One was called the 1000 drinking games which combines rounds of classic and new drinking games! This drinking game had everything from dice games, card games, tongue twisters, spinner games, categories, ranking-based games and so on which looked to be a whole lot of fun!

Then I also found one called the “Cocktail Dice- Daiquiri” drinking game which looked quite sophisticated! You can be as many as 30 people playing this game which involves simple to learn and fun to play rules, where the players takes turn rolling dice for various actions and assignments! I got them both cause together they where only like $20 bucks. Now, you can’t beat that! So when I got them, I first invited the ladies for some planning which we love to do… just like when we used to plan our trips!

We had so much fun learning about all the games!

After just a few minutes of sitting down reading up on all the games, I could already detect that excited look on their faces, which I’ve missed for so long! We all instantly knew that lots of fun where finally coming our way and if we where having this much fun, just the ladies… just imagine how much fun we’ll be having, playing these drinking games together with the guys!

The next day I was assigned to load up with all kinds of alcoholic beverages! Some of my other girlfriends took care off all the party decorations and others where in charge of the dinner menu! Oh, it was just like the good old days and I have to say, I was so, so proud of myself to have put all this together!!! Well, lets make a long story short… cause I think by know, you’ve figured out everything was coming together perfectly! And let me tell you, it certainly did! This party was one of the best one ever plus all the adult drinking games where a huge hit! But best of all, no more dome and gloom, just lots and lots of happy faces!

I like looking at lots of new sex gadgets, at least once a week… and it seems the sex toys industry, is literally on fire right now! Every time I go to one of my favorite sex toys shop, there’s always tons of new and exciting stuff which I can’t wait to read up on! Obviously if I bought everything I liked, I would be a very poor women, not saying that the sex toys are really expensive! But what would ultimately drain my bank account, would be from buying to many of them! So I have to choose carefully and keep my selection to a minimum which means one sex toy each month!

This month I picked a fantastic finger vibe!

I like all kinds of sex toys, but I have to say that my favorite ones are definitely vibrators. You mention it and I probably have it! Everything from classic, realistic and rabbit vibes… to g-spot, massagers and teaser vibrators… plus most everything in between! So this month I found a fantastic finger vibrator, called the “Edwards Pussy Hand finger Vibe” which I can’t wait to check out!

Remember the movie Edwards Scissors hands, with totally dreamy Johnny Depp in it, where he plays a guy who has five fingered scissors, sown on to his hands! The movie was really weird, but I just loved it! So this finger massager kind of reminded me of that movie! Anyway, back to my unique finger vibrator which caught my eye instantly!

Most of the finger vibes only have one spot to massage!

Most of the finger vibrators I’ve seen only has one spot to massage which usually is the clit, and/or the inside of your vagina! But this one has three spots you can massage simultaneously! Just imagine being able to massage both your clit, the inner wall of the vagina plus some back door action… all at the same time! Now, doesn’t that sound like something you wanna do, it certainly sounds very sexually intriguing to me!

When I got mine, I tested it out by first putting it on the pointer, the index and the ring finger (like it showed on the picture to do)… which I tell you, felt unbelievably fantastic! All that glorious vibrations (comes in three different vibration modes by the way), all over and inside my vagina, was totally “here I come” orgasm heaven! But I also explored by putting the vibes on different finger combination, like the thumb the index and the pinkie which brought on some very different feeling, really satisfying sensations too!

Now this is an idea you might like too!

Just play around with it and find out which finger combination you like the best… you’re guaranteed to have the most pleasurable solo play ever… just like I did! Now this is a thought! How about buying one more and put that one on the other hand, for some very exciting nipple and breast play too!!! And thinking about Johnny Depp while masturbating, surely completes the whole masturbation session as well!

Having my latest boyfriend in stitches and wondering, in the sex department… has been on top of my list, of things to do lately! I used to have a boyfriend who was the dominant one, when it came to our sexual liaisons! And since I can both be a leader as well as a follower in most situations I encounter, it worked out quite well! But I have to admit that after a year of him constantly being in charge of almost everything we ever did… it got to be quite lame, so I finally broke up with him! Not long thereafter, I was lucky enough to meet Billy and he’s as far away from being anything close to a leader… which I now find to be a great attribute of his!

He’s my boy toy in the bedroom and I just love it!

I have to admit that Billy is a bit on the shy side, but I think that makes things even more exciting! I can tell he hasn’t had a lot of experience, when it comes to doing all kinds of different sex stuff! But if it wasn’t for my other boyfriend, I wouldn’t have been so creative either! He did teach me a lot, which I’m sincerely grateful for! And Billy is eager to learn and experiment, so it’s all working out great!

So for my latest thrilling and exciting romantic rendezvous… I decided to have some bondage, introduced to our sex life! It’s a glow in the dark bondage kit! And that couldn’t be more perfect, cause like I said before, he’s a bit shy and unsure of himself… so this way, we can play the bondage game with the lights off! The kit includes a pair of wrist and ankle cuffs that glows in the dark plus a breathable ball gag that glows too! And I really like the glowing in the dark, body paint too! Oh, it comes with a free satin blindfold as well which came in mighty handy, when things got to embarrassing for him!

A night of fun with the lights off!

Anyway, when it was time to show off the evenings sexual interlude, his face went completely red from total embarrassment! There’s nothing more sexually charging though, than having that feeling of being in the drivers seat of a sex situation… at least it is to me! So I can definitely understand how my former boyfriend felt, when he was bossing my around! I have to be careful though not to go overboard, cause he might get rid of me (like a got rid of him), if I’m to controlling! Now that would be absolutely terrible, since I’m having so much fun right now!

A couple of hours before he came home that night, I’d painted my body allover, with sexual innuendos like “fuck me please”, “come and get me, lover boy” and so on… which I could tell, he totally liked! And after that everything was a piece of cake, well almost anyway! He let me put on both the wrist and ankle cuffs right away… but it took me an hour of convincing, to get him to wear the ball gag and the blindfold! Once I had him fully restrained though, we had the most exciting, most fun sex ever! And I can’t wait to have him cuff me up the next time we indulge in some fantastic bondage play… after all, we live in an equal for all society!

We’ve been married for almost 25 years now and sex has been one of the most favorite things to occupy all our free time with! And when I say that I mean, not with other partners, always just the two of us… which is quite an accomplishment within itself! The funniest thing happened a couple of weeks ago which reminded me how extraordinary this really is! An old girlfriend called me out of the blue, whom I hadn’t spoken to for over 10 years and when she called, we where as usual engaging in sex! And when I excused myself and said I had to call her back later, even though we hadn’t been in-touch for all those years… her immediate words where… “Don’t tell me, you’re still into fucking every damn night”!!!

He’s almost 70 and bust’her is getting a bit tired!

My husband is fifteen years my senior and things have been great for most of the time! But I have to admit that his stamina is getting lesser and lesser by the day! Not that I’m complaining, but I would love to have his erection last as long as it used too! Not to brag, but our love session would usual last for at least an hour of two! Not saying that we are screwing the whole time! We alternate between a bit of oral sex and sometimes we use different kinds of sex toys or start our love sessions by viewing a porno!

Anyway, I noticed like a said before that he couldn’t stay hard for as long as we both wanted… so that’s when I started to look for some male sexual enhancers! I’ve heard about Viagra ofcourse, but you have to get a prescription for that. I don’t think he needs something that strong though… not yet anyway! No, I was more looking for something in form of an herbal sex stimulants! And when I went on the adult internet to a sex toys shop, I found tons of ones that sounded fantastic! They offered everything from erection creams, lotions and gels (to messy for us though), but when I saw the herbal sex stimulants… now that was exactly what I was looking for!

I picked one called “Aurapur”!

When I came across one called “Aurapur”, it sounded like something I wanted to check out right away! I also like the fact that this one can be taken by me as well… plus it’s named as a dietary supplement which sounds totally natural in my book! On the box it stated that it will not only increase my hubbies stamina, it’s also formulated to elevate mood, increase libido, improve intimacy (we don’t really need that), reduce stress and a mild anxiety, (he does need that for sure)! I think his not so great performances lately, was partly due to him stressing over not staying hard for longer periods of time!

Best of all, it works in just under twenty minutes and last for over twelve hours! So now to the results! Ofcourse you’re always a bit skeptic, when trying out something new. But I tell you, this sexual enhancement supplement did everything it stated plus more! Forget about half an hour loves making sessions anymore… that night we where indulging all night long! We took a few snack breaks in between… but boy, my really horny, erect husband couldn’t wait to jump back in the sack for more! Now that’s success all the way, to say the least! Actually, he looked to have such a freaken great time, tomorrow I’m taking some too!